Celebrate: Taking the Lesson of Celebration to Heart #celebratelu 1/17/15

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Ruth Ayres hosts a weekly celebration on her blog. I appreciate this invitation to look for the positives in my week.

Although I try to participate in the Celebrate meme every week, I’m not sure that I always take the lesson of celebration to heart. I felt overwhelmed this week–overwhelmed by the daunting work of helping my son heal, overwhelmed by some big work projects with fast-approaching deadlines, overwhelmed by the semester’s start and the challenge of five different course preps, overwhelmed by the daily tasks of cooking, cleaning, running errands. I felt so busy that I barely had time to breathe or eat, yet I didn’t do many of the things that are important to me: I didn’t write, didn’t blog, didn’t read, didn’t walk, didn’t exercise. Even though I spent every spare moment working on my classes, I still felt like I was playing catch-up all week–and never getting there. Throughout the week, I occasionally thought about writing this celebration post but couldn’t imagine coming up with anything to celebrate.

But of course that’s ridiculous. There was plenty to celebrate. There were plenty of good moments this week. I just chose not to see them and not to live in them.

This morning, I took a little time for myself and caught up on some blog reading. I found just the words I needed to read.

First, Ruth’s celebration post, which contained this reminder:

We are not meant to be worn, to be falling apart, to be holding on by threads. Rather, celebration is a net that can hold life together. It will not be torn. It holds strong and wraps around our fragile hearts.

Then, Tammy’s reflection on positive, her one little word for 2015:

When we, as educators, look at students’ errors in a positive light we tend to plan instruction that builds on students’ strengths rather than focusing on deficits.  Noticing the positive also allows us to celebrate what students can do and think about how to connect what they know with their next learning steps.

When we think about the positives when we look at student errors, we tend to focus on the process of learning rather than focusing on the outcomes. The question, “What did this student try,” is an important one when we look for what is right about what is wrong.   Noticing the positive helps us focus on the students’ thought process and the small actions or attempts that the student made.   As we notice these positives actions, we can help our students notice them too.

Next, Pernille Ripp’s reminder that we can take control and diffuse a negative mindset:

Catch yourself in the act and change your own direction.  Change your narrative and share the positive.  This doesn’t mean you cannot discuss hard situations, just change the way you phrase them.

And finally, the words Michele uses to open her celebration post every week:

It’s always good to end the week on a positive note.  Sometimes we concentrate on the negatives.  We have a choice.  Choose positive.  Choose to celebrate.

I spent my week concentrating on the negative, but I’m choosing positive today. My goal for next week is to make that choice more often.

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1. Spending time with my favorite kid. Even on the worst day, there are smiles, laughter, moments of grace. My son does something positive and heartening every single day, and I want to notice and celebrate those moments.

2. Course hashtags. Even on my busiest day, I took time to catch up on my course hashtags on Twitter: #yalitclass and #diglitclass. I love the discussion, sharing, humor, and insight I’m already seeing.

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3. Mo Willems Day! On Thursday, I introduced my Children’s Lit students to Mo Willems. We read A Big Guy Took My Ball and Don’t Let the Pigeon Stay Up Late! and watched book trailers for The Duckling Gets a Cookie?! and That Is Not a Good Idea. Next week, we’re starting our Mock Caldecott unit and we’ll spend some time with Willems’s Caldecott Honor books.

4. Finishing a work project I’d been putting off. And of course it turned out that it didn’t take nearly as long and wasn’t nearly as hard as I thought it was going to be. So it was kind of silly to dread it for months and procrastinate until the last possible moment. It feels SO GOOD to be done!

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5. Cats. I was even cranky about CATS this week! HOW COULD I BE CRANKY ABOUT MY CATS? Look at those faces. Abby did make me smile many times this week: when she wasn’t napping on top of Xander, she was doing 360s and back flips in the air (she’s an extraordinarily athletic cat).

 

 

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6 thoughts on “Celebrate: Taking the Lesson of Celebration to Heart #celebratelu 1/17/15

  1. Cranky about cats?! My cat is hilarious, even on my crankiest days, he finds something to do to break through. Love your son’s smile in that photograph – full of joy, and love…and delight at scrumptious pancakes!

  2. This post is a dual treat – your lovely celebration with smiling boy, adorable cats and Elephant and Piggie AND the wisdom of the brilliant bloggers who share such thoughtful words. Thank you!

  3. Ditto to what Carrie said. So important to feed yourself with positive thoughts. So wonderful that you find and then share them. Love your beautiful boy, Mo Willems and your cats 🙂
    Julieanne

  4. Bravo for posting during a time when it was hard to focus on the positive! Digging in when it’s not easily accessible…that’s the beauty of this post!! Love the picture of your son and your cats!! Both made me smile!! Remember to be kind to yourself when looking for the celebrations this week!

  5. Elizabeth, Julieanne sent me over to your post because she said that we had similar topics for our posts: reaching for positivity. I am glad that you committed to being positive even in the midst of struggle. I often find myself overextended and this leads to a feeling of stress. That is when positive thinking has to kick in and we celebrate the moments. Your son seems to make you smile and you captured that beautifully in the photo. Consider bringing some of your reflective talent to a global gallery of artistic expressions that I am creating.You can find out more about that at http://beyondliteracylink.blogspot.com/2015/01/celebrating-winter-whisperings-this.html. Great connecting with you.

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